My name is Asia Miller. I'm 21 years old and currently a full-time nursing student at Florida Vocational Institute School of Nursing & Technology, where I’m pursuing my Associate of Science in Nursing. I am also a single mother to my smart and handsome, one-year-old son, Elijah. I balanced motherhood, school, and work, doing hair as a licensed cosmetologist from home, delivering with Instacart and DoorDash, doing anything I can to survive, all while staying focused on my goals. Every decision I make is with Elijah’s future in mind. Every problem I overcome brings us closer to the life I’ve always dreamed of. I refuse to let my struggles stop me from building the future we deserve. My journey to nursing wasn’t a straight path. After giving birth, I struggled with severe postpartum depression and PTSD from an emotionally abusive relationship. I often felt lost, unsure if I could be the mother I wanted to be for Elijah. When he’s sick, the world stops. It’s hard not being able to focus on things that made me feel like me. Through therapy and leaning into God, I found the strength to keep going. I knew I had to break generational cycles and become a strong example for my son. My heavenly grandmother, who passed in 2021, always encouraged me to be a nurse or “be something.” It was always “books before boy,” though my path didn’t start that way. On September 7, 2023, the day after I gave birth, I met a nurse who was so gentle and patient with me. She asked if I was a nurse. I replied, “No.” She said, “Your demeanor screams nurse!” That moment stayed with me. In high school, I didn’t want to be a nurse because I thought it was all blood, trauma, and needles. I chose Visual Arts, where I poured myself into painting, drawing, and turning thoughts into real images. Sometimes I wish I could paint my own illustrations in my book, but it would be painted as a fairytale, not a biography. But I’ve learned my real story has power. I want to use it to help others. That is one reason why I chose nursing. It’s how I turn pain into purpose. I plan to specialize in maternal or aesthetic care. I also dream of starting a nonprofit for single mothers or a business that blends cosmetology and nursing for survivors of abuse. My experiences as a mother, survivor, and caregiver have prepared me to serve others with compassion, respect for diverse backgrounds, and inner strength. Education is my way forward. It’s how I’ll create stable future for me and my son. Winning the Kelly O. Memorial Nursing Scholarship would lift a huge weight off my shoulders and allow me to focus more on my studies. This scholarship would mean more than financial help. It would be a reminder that my story matters, and that hard work, strength, and God can lead to something beautiful. I’m not just writing a new chapter, I'm rewriting the narrative completely. And this time, it’s not a fairytale. It’s history in the making.

Rising Above Being Just a Mommy "Mommy...Mommy..." My son's soft voice in the middle of the night. His small body was hot with fever of 102°F, and he reached for me. I held on to him, saying a prayer. I was exhausted, financially struggling, and emotionally drained, but I knew I had to keep going for him, for me, and for the future I was determined to build. Becoming a nurse isn’t just a career for me; it’s my purpose, my way of proving that these challenges go through won’t define who I am. As a single mother, my path to higher education hasn’t been essay. I worry about more than exams and assignments. I also worry about diapers, doctor visits, and making sure there’s food on the table. While others focus just on school, I have to balance my education with the daily responsibilities of being a mother. Even though my family offers help, I rarely ask for it because I see my son as my responsibility. I want him to grow up seeing his mom as someone who never gave up, no matter how hard life got. My passion for nursing comes from a deep want to help others, as I wish someone had helped me when I was crying out for help. Nursing is personal for me because it’s also about honoring my grandmother’s memory. She was always there to remind me to be a different seed from the bunch. Her words kept me going and she believed I was meant for something great. But my journey hasn’t just been about chasing a dream. It’s also been about survival. I’ve had to heal from the emotional scars of an abusive ex whose behavior still affects me today. There were times when I felt depressed, I questioned my worth, and I could not physically and emotionally take care of my son. Therapy has helped me heal and take control of my future. Despite the mental and emotional weight, I remind myself that I am not a victim, I am a survivor. To make ends meet, I hustle by doing hair a licensed home-based hairstylist, DoorDash, and Instacart. I’m doing everything I can to provide for my son while working toward my nursing degree. I plan to keep pushing forward until I reach my goal of earning my Master's degree in nursing. It’s a long road, but I am determined. Each job I take, no matter how small or exhausting, is one step closer to building the future I want for my son and myself. Pursuing a nursing career is more than just a job for me; it’s about creating a better life for my son, Elijah. I want him to see that no matter how hard life gets, he can always keep going. I want him to understand that his mother fought for a better future for both of us and that nothing was too difficult to overcome. This scholarship would do more than help pay for school, it would show that my hard work, sacrifices, and dedication are shown. With this support, I can focus more on my goal of becoming a nurse. I’m not just working toward a degree; I’m building a future where I can provide for my son, honor my grandmother’s memory, and make a difference in the lives of the people I will care for. And one day, when I walk across that stage with my nursing degree not, I’ll hear the most warming words: "Yay, Mommy! Yay! You did it!"

The birth of my son, Elijah, was the happiest moment of my life, but it was also the start of my hardest battle. Becoming a single mom brought joy, then later problems that I was not prepared for. After he was born, I struggled with severe postpartum depression, made worse by PTSD from an emotionally abusive relationship with my ex-partner. Some days, it felt impossible to get out of bed, and I questioned whether I could provide Elijah with the life he deserves. Sometimes I felt stuck, as if I could not be the mother I wanted to be. I would repeatedly apologize, even if I had not done anything wrong, because my mind was programmed to believe I was always the problem. Deep down, I knew I had to break free from the abuse, not just for myself, but also to show my son that this is not how women should be treated. Looking into Elijah's big, bright eyes gave me the drive to keep going, and he became my motivation to heal and rebuild my life. Coping with postpartum depression and PTSD took a toll on my physical, emotional, and mental health. The depression drained me, making even simple tasks like cooking feel overwhelming. PTSD increased the situation since traumatic memories from my previous relationship were constantly brought to mind. I felt alone as I tried to balance motherhood with my own healing. During this minor setback, I realized I needed help, not just for me, but for Elijah too. Thanks to my past therapist and my current one, therapy became a lifeline, helping me work through years of pain and teaching me better ways to cope. I also found strength in my faith in God and in the support of family, who motivated me to take life one day at a time. This scholarship would help me financially, but it would also be an important step toward achieving my goals. As a nursing student, I have a drive to do well academically while maintaining my role of being a single mother. Nursing is my calling because it allows me to use my compassion, life experiences, and passion to help others. I understand what it is like to be vulnerable and in need of care, and I hope to use my experiences to provide the same compassion for my patients. This scholarship would help relieve some of the financial burden of my education, allowing me to focus on my studies and aim to become a skilled and compassionate registered nurse. My journey has been tough, but it showed me my determination. I am working to create a better future for myself and my son, Elijah. Through nursing, I hope to make a difference in the lives of others, just as others have made a difference in mine. This scholarship would be an important part of my journey, helping me balance being a single mom and nursing school while getting closer to my goals. With faith, determination, and support, I know I will succeed and build a life that Elijah and I can both be proud of.